Ever since Avy entered his teenage years, it’s been a rollercoaster of emotions, eye-rolls, and unexpected hugs. He was always a gentle, caring soul—and while that core remains, let’s just say we now have a slightly upgraded version with a few quirks thrown in.
From huffing shoulders to dramatic sighs when he’s caught red-handed… he sure knows how to put on a show. But here’s the sweet part: within five minutes, he’ll come running to me and KK with the biggest hugs and kisses, like he’s still our little boy.
Teen thoughts? Oh, they’ve evolved. The once innocent, no-swear zone has matured—Avy’s picked up a few colorful expressions (used strategically outside adult supervision, of course). And when his younger brother pushes his limits, he chooses punching over profanity. Progress?
Of course, we get the occasional “He’s your favorite!” line, which—let's be honest—feels like a rite of passage in sibling drama.
Lessons From My Mom-of-a-Teen Journey
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Balance is everything
In our household, my husband plays the “disciplinarian,” while I’m the safe haven and listener. That duality helps Avy stay grounded yet open.
- Be the vault
Creating a space where your teen feels safe to talk can truly prevent risky outside influences. I’d rather he vent to me than to someone who might not have his best interest at heart.
- Choose your battles wisely
Not every mood swing or snarky comeback needs confrontation. Sometimes, ignoring is the new parenting superpower.
- Be supportive, but firm
Teens carry a lot
—academic stress, peer pressure, identity confusion. We have to be their cheerleaders and their guideposts.
Parenting a teenager isn’t a straight road—it’s messy, magical, and completely worth it. Every hug, every honest apology, every rebellious moment is part of the experiment. And I wouldn’t trade it for the world.
