Tuesday, January 16, 2018

So much to teach :)

Its fun to see a child growing up and facing few daily challenges. couple of days back me and my kids had gone to one of my friends house for an occasion. There were other kids as well. We played a game which involved both Avyaya and myself. In that game the other team of mom and kid won. we were all clapping and cheering, but there was one person in that room who was crying his heart out. hiding behind me and hugging me was my little son(the elder one). 
what happened Avyaya? 
mummaaaaaa.... we didn't get the prize..😭
that's alright dear!!!!
NOOOOOOO.... we didn't get the prize...!!!!!

we enjoyed the game that's what matters. participation matter. We cant win every time. and its in good sportsman spirit to congratulate the winner.and be happy .( waah!!! i am such a wise person😊) 
nooooo... we didn't win!!!!😢 
then i had to tell him to stop crying as it doesn't look good . and there is no reason to cry!!!  this worked!!!! he stopped crying and started playing again. 
At times being competitive is good, it keeps us motivated. but setbacks can also be helpful. it helps us to be strong and have the attitude of doing it better. i think Avyaya is still too young to understand this. but i need to teach him . 

But it was a fun get together with friends where Avyaya met more kids to play with and I met pretty, jovial and lovely ladies. 





















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